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Teenager Problems - The Voice of Experience

Ready-Set-WorkFrom years spent on Chicago's notorious inner city streets, my immersion in Chicago street gangs as a major gang chief, my years as an entrepreneur and as a founding director of the Chicago non-profit group "Ready-Set-Work" I understand, up-close and personal, the struggles teenagers face with self-esteem, with each other and just with life, each and every day.

I think it's fair to say that though I may not have been a troubled-teen myself, I sure as hell was a troublesome one!

It's hardly surprising that there are so many teens troubled and struggling. Today teenagers face greater stress, more challenges to their self-esteen, temptation and peer pressure then ever before. And they're more cynical and sophisticated, so it's tougher than ever to connect with then. Kids who are in trouble won't respond to just anyone, certainly someone who just doesn't get it, who hasn't any legitimate idea of what they're going through, and can't walk the walk.

Look I want to be clear right up front. I'm no therapist. I have no formal training or qualifications, nor any 'five-step' program for troubled teens. My experience dealing with teen-trouble is based on a combination of my extraordinary ex-life as a precocious and powerful young gang chief; my endeavors as a young black entrepreneur and the work I do today as a life coach, with parents, communities, schools and teens.

Tattoos on my soul And when you read my story in my memoir: "Tattoos On My Soul" you'll understand why I am one of the most potent voices you'll find anywhere to help a troubled teen.

You see I do get it. I've been there, I've lived it, and I speak the language. Young people, and troubled teens, recognize my street creds. They just have to look into my eyes to see the depth of the experience, and knowing there.

WHAT'S YOUR CHILD UP AGAINST?
  • Being pressured to join, or trying to get out of,
    a street gang?
  • A victim of bullying, or being a bully?
  • Too little self-esteem or too much self-loathing?
  • Experimenting with drugs?
  • No focus?
  • Just impossible to live with!

There may not be a silver bullet solution, but at least, open the door, and start the dialogue. Contact Us to schedule an appointment for a chat.

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Question of the Week: "Why did he promise me one thing and do another?"

Q: Anonymous asks: "It's been 2 weeks since I wrote a letter telling a man how I felt about him. I told him that I cared about him, but I cannot let my feelings get 2 involved because I know that he has began to see another woman; he was not in the beginning. I told him that I was upset because I thought that we were working toward something special. I thought that we were damn near in a relationship! But when I observed his actions, I soon realized that things are not what they seem.

Recently, I have told him so much about my personal life. I felt that he understood what I was going through, and was able to look past that. He accepted what I told him about myself, and he still treated me with respect. He offered for me to move in with him, we were seeing each other on a daily basis, and we've been intimate for awhile now. But now he's lying to me about another woman.

My question: why would he go so far into trying to make me feel wanted, and cared for? And even offer for me to live with him just to mess it up? Im confused. Did he notice some things about me that didn't notice in the beginning? But I refuse to believe that he would offer to share his living space with someone that he had bad intentions for all along. And please note, this other girl that he's talking 2 is married with a child, and she is NOT ATTRACTIVE. I have to be blunt. Me on the other hand, no kids, single, in school, independent, attractive young lady. He still calls me to spend time, but it's me saying no! I'm not willing to share him."

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